Christian Relationship Coach · Author · RCCG Pastor
For twenty-five years, Pastor John A. Oluwole has walked with singles and couples — in Nigeria and across the diaspora — through the very real, very human work of building marriages that honour God and endure every season of life.
Featured Book
Is your Christian marriage struggling with silent battles and unspoken frustrations? Many devoted couples, despite their deep love for God and each other, find themselves trapped in cycles of misunderstanding, emotional distance, and unresolved conflict.
This handbook blends timeless biblical wisdom with practical, compassionate pastoral insight — transforming words from weapons into bridges. You'll learn to resolve conflict God's way, recognise and dismantle unhealthy patterns, and reshape everyday conversations into a vibrant, enduring reflection of Christ's love.
About Pastor John
Pastor John A. Oluwole is a pastor, Christian teacher, relationship mentor, and author with a passion for helping individuals, couples, and families build Christ-centred relationships that honour God and endure through every season of life.
Before full-time ministry, his career spanned as a consultant in banking, telecoms, aviation, oil & gas, and the public sector — a background that shapes his practical, structured approach to counselling. Today his teaching combines sound biblical exposition with everyday application, helping believers translate timeless Scriptural truth into real conversations at home.
"Strong marriages build strong families. Strong families build strong churches. Strong churches transform communities." Pastor John A. Oluwole
How We Can Walk Together
Whether you're preparing for marriage, strengthening one, or rebuilding after hurt — there's a resource here for where you are.
Private premarital and marital coaching sessions, grounded in Scripture and 25+ years of counselling experience.
A growing library of Christian relationship books, workbooks, and assessment kits for singles and married couples.
Workshops and training materials for RCCG workers and church teams building family-life ministries.
A warm WhatsApp community for relationship readiness and marital growth — encouragement between sessions.
The Full Library
From discernment before marriage to healing after heartbreak — each title meets you exactly where you are.
For Singles & Those in Courtship
Before you say "I do"… not every relationship is sent by God. Some arrive beautifully wrapped in romance, chemistry, and promises — yet hide patterns that eventually destroy trust, peace, and marriages. Most broken marriages didn't begin with obvious warning signs; they began with warning signs that were ignored.
Relationship Red Flags: 50 Warning Signs You Should Never Ignore Before Marriage is a practical biblical guide to recognising unhealthy relationship patterns before they become lifelong pain.
For Discerning a God-Led Partner
Are you tired of attracting the wrong people — connections that feel right at first, but leave you confused, hurt, or spiritually drained? Millions of Christian singles make one of the most important decisions of their lives without a God-given framework to guide them.
Pastor John gives you the tools to read people, situations, and connections through God's lens — a God-centred guide to help you stop settling, start discerning, and walk confidently into the relationship God has prepared for you.
For Becoming Marriage-Ready
You have prayed. You have fasted. You have made your list. But the question nobody is asking you — the one that matters most — is this: are you truly ready, not just to find love, but to sustain it?
Before You Say Yes is the resource the church has long needed but rarely produced. It is not a book about how to attract a partner — it is a Spirit-filled, practical guide to becoming one.
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A 60-Question Self-Scoring Workbook
Before you pray for your person, ask yourself this: am I truly ready to receive them? Most Christian singles focus on finding the right person — but very few take the time to become the right person. This kit changes that.
Score yourself honestly across 5 key pillars: Emotional Readiness, Spiritual Readiness, Character & Values, Practical Readiness, and Relational Wisdom — then receive your personal Readiness Profile and a clear, encouraging action plan.
Stay Connected
Weekly encouragement, teaching, and honest conversation with singles and couples walking the same road as you.
What Readers & Couples Say
"I was on the verge of marrying the wrong person because I ignored the warning signs. Through Pastor John A. Oluwole's counsel, God opened my eyes, and today I thank Him for saving me from a lifetime of regret."
"My marriage was filled with constant misunderstandings until I applied the biblical communication principles Pastor John shared during counseling. Our home is now filled with peace, respect, and genuine love."
"Pastor John doesn't just give advice but points people back to God's Word with wisdom and compassion. His counseling transformed the way I view relationships and prepared me for a healthy, Christ-centered marriage."
Work With Pastor John
Whether you're preparing for marriage, working through a rough season, or leading a ministry team, reach out and share where you are. Pastor John reviews every message personally.
